Oof. Looking back to the last date I’ve written, it’s been AGES. I think I should not wait for inspiration to hit me before I write, but I should make it an aim to at least write a blog once a week, or once a month, that’s better than once in a year lol.
It’s the 2nd November, the last month before the new season: Summer. Yet, personally I’ve already stepped into a new season, way unexpected and way too fast, hitting me like a crashing wave I’m still trying to catch my breath. But here we are, still breathing, taking in the moment and embracing the season even though right now it’s quite a strange season. It’s waves crashing against me full force, yet its peaceful winds blowing in the air. It’s so bittersweet. What’s new you might ask? Well…
New house🔥🤞
Baptism on Saturday🥹
New job💃
Newly single.❤🩹
A lot of new things in November for the start of November, yes all of that happened within this week. Some things I expected and got ready for and other things I never saw coming.
I never thought I’d end up single after 3 months of investing in someone. I can’t lie my heart is broken. My heart is sore. But I know my heart will go on (catch the reference).
It sucks. A heartbreak and a break up you never saw coming sucks. I never imagined my life without the one person I absolutely love and adore and would do anything for. In this case, I wish I did better. He deserved better. I don’t blame him for walking away even though I wish he stayed. I reflected on what happened, what went wrong, where did I go wrong, what could I have done better to be a better girlfriend, what could we have done better to be a better couple. We were a passion filled with fire yet so much miscommunications. The healing is still raw and I’m still healing. But that’s a blog for another day.
Baptism. Sjoe. I’m ready for it. My flesh hates it and tried so hard to stop me from doing it, afraid I might make a fool of myself by getting baptized and messing up again. Can’t wait to do it. My spirit is leaping at the thought. I’m about to bury the old man and rise anew just like my Saviour. It is intimate yet public. It is a public declaration to the world that I am done with my passed life and ready to start a new, a new creation in Christ Jesus. This is exciting. This is joyous. Despite everything else happening around me this is a victory. I might write on the beauty and purpose of water baptism as a whole in another blog. 😉
12 having been buried with him in baptism, in which you were also raised with him through your faith in the working of God, who raised him from the dead.
13 When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins,
Colossians 2:12-13
A new home. Oof, can’t lie I miss my old home. But there’s something beautiful about just starting new. A new environment, so peaceful. A stone throw away from the beach. Yet it’s not a permanent home, oh how I wish it were. It’s temporary. A rental while my family finds it’s feet. But I am content in the moment. I am happy and blessed knowing I have a roof over my head, a place to stay and enough room to breathe. With stunning mountain views.
A new job. I never really thought I’d end up working full time, the plan was to complete my studies at UCT, screen production major, making movies and living my dream. But then one hard knock of a setback through an email, “you will not be funded” hit me. It was one thing I did not see coming, it hit me in the middle of second semester. I was thriving, I was building a portfolio for myself and just like that I was stopped. I had the choice to let it go and start somewhere new, perhaps that is what God wants or I could take out a study loan and find myself in huge debt. I chose to take the first route, because maybe, just maybe, I was building for my own kingdom, for my own empire and not even thinking of God. (But that, my dear friend, is a blog post for another day!!) Now embracing this new job, I smile at the thought. So ready to go earn the bag. Lol, on a serious note this is the first step to stability I’ve had in years. And I’m trusting that it’s not just a job, but it’s a purpose. God has a purpose for me being there and He will lead me and guide me as He sees fit to speak to the hearts of those who are in need of Him. I look forward to the journey.
So to sum up, I’m in a brand new season and I have no idea how to navigate around it. It’s bittersweet. A heartache and an exciting new journey. Some things I wish I could not have in this season, because the fear of the unknown is so real. But that’s where faith and trust and hope comes in. Faith in knowing He works all things together for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28). Trust in knowing His plans are good and they are not to harm but to prosper. (Jer 29:11) and hope in knowing that despite what may come He will never leave nor forsake me. (Hebrews 13:5)
Well, that’s all for now I guess. Hopefully, the next blog will be next week and not next year, (hold me accountable, will you?)
Remember, no matter what season you’re in, God is still faithful and God is always good. His love is unconditional, His mercy never ending. He is slow to anger and quick to forgive, He is kind and patient. He is everything we need in every single season. A season of new beginnings, He is there to usher us in. A season of confusion and heartache, He is the great comforter and God of peace, He calms my racing mind and softens my heart when disappointments could oh so easily harden my heart and turn me away from Him, I will never, because I have tasted and see that the Lord is good, I have tasted and see His love for me, so vast, so deep, so great, none can compare. The beauty of knowing Christ is more than enough, it is satisfying even when Satan tries to roar in my heart that I am alone, I know that I am never alone. Even when Satan tries to whisper in my heart that I should give up, I will chose to endure. You should too. Embrace whatever season you’re in with gladness of heart knowing that there is purpose in everything even when we don’t fully understand it yet.
God bless you and much love!
Tammy xx